Spread the Word!
March 25th, 2009One unsuspecting afternoon, I recently found this email in my in-box:
“Hi, Michelle,
My friend Sue (from my mom’s group) had a disturbing experience recently –
her pelvic floor “fell out”. She has been to the Dr. twice now, and they
told her that it was such a mild case; they were not going to recommend
therapy. Sue is not really satisfied with that response….
Could you help her out?”
After receiving this email I gave Sue a call to learn more about her situation. She literally had been standing in the shower one morning and had part of her pelvic floor start falling out! Terrified she rushed to the Dr. who examined her and declared that she was fine, just do a few Kegals. The OB also told her this was normal in women who have had children and just part of life. In addition to the 2 times her pelvic floor has “fallen” out, Sue has also been having urge incontinence, discomfort during sex, and the emotional distress of the above medical conditions. I was entirely saddened that Sue had been living with these symptoms and thinking there was really no way out. She was relieved and hopeful to find that there are indeed so many more resources available to her in her pursuit of health and wellness.
My interactions with Sue served as a clear reminder that there is much to be done in getting the message out regarding the priority of pelvic floor health and all the resources available to women. This aspect of health is a foundational component of women’s wellness. All ladies deserve to feel strong and in control of their bodies. As we go through our daily lives, let’s take these small steps to spread the word for pelvic wellness:
- Be honest about yourself – When it’s appropriate, openly discuss your personal path to wellness. Women often feel embarrassed to bring up issues regarding their pelvic floor or incontinence. Open the door for conversation by telling your story.
- Talk to your Doc. – Your OB, General Practitioner, Midwife, or even Child’s Pediatrician may enjoy and benefit by receiving information on Total Control. You see these professionals every year, why not take 3 minutes at the end of the visit to spread the word. You may also want to consider speaking with alternative medicine professionals such as chiropractors, massage therapist, and acupuncturist.
- Listen – By reading between the lines we can often learn that a woman is having pelvic floor issues if we are really listening to her. Take the time to hear the people in your life that you come in contact with and provide them with information that can help.
There are way too many women out there like Sue who desperately need to know that there are resources available to them! Resources that will empower them to regain control of their pelvic health and lives, resulting in a state of wellness that we all desire. Let’s be mindful to use the natural opportunities in our life as a platform for this message.
Yours in Health,
Michelle Renae